Nepal Aghor Ashram mangaldhanram

For a householder as said by Kapaleshwar Singha Shawak Ram Baba, so far as God is concerned, He would like you to continue fulfilling your obligations. One should work as much as he is satisfied with but no one should work under pressure to uplift his life and meet his family or social obligations. To the answer of the question about how to face hatred, jealousy, mistrust of the society and to get isolate ourselves living among them Baba said If the society is wrong, then it has to be prepared for improvement. The administration has to be reformed because all of us are affected by it. We too want to see improvement in the society and administration. People who come to us live in the same society and are subject to the same social laws. If things go wrong , they too are affected, and if those who come to us are in distress then how can we be happy. And therefore, it is the duty of a Sadhu that he should pay attention to the social matters along with his spiritual duties. And if society needs a clean up then, I would say, it takes, including struggle, war, movements, revolution, etc. If there is a super power if there is a god, we would like him to get involved in it too. In an average householder’s life also, there is a unique moment is right after he leaves his bed at dawn. That is the moment when past things are forgotten and new programme is not up yet. For a few minutes one is away from everything. As soon as you wake up, just sit down. At that particular moment , all your latent godly virtues got an opportunity to rise. And once they rise up, the evil thoughts automatically get suppressed. And what ever thoughts emanate at this particular moment will persist throughout the whole day. This is true for every householder, and gradually you will notice the change.
Personal improvement is the starting point of Adhyatma (spirituality). And in this life that is also the end of Adhyatma. If you do this, you will find peace and you will also increase your capacity. Adhyatma doesnot teach that you should strive for God just by yourself, get your whole family involved. Neither does Adhyatma ask you to go to jungle or cave in search of god and get yourself killed. Aghoreshwar Bhagwan Ram says , ‘First be devoted to saints and then to ethics’.